Now let’s talk about the fragrance. It is so intoxicating that the flowers were traditionally given to newly weds and used and to set a certain atmosphere (if you know what I mean, wink wink)

Its properties are beneficial for men and women alike in this area. It’s balancing. Well, it just means that it can help you stay in tune with your loved one. To help keep one from getting ahead of the other… you catching me here?

The aroma promotes feelings of security and intimacy and restores peace and confidence. Listen, we all know that we can start feeling stressed and inadequate when we start comparing (yeah, we all do it). But this exotic scent helps kick that inhibited low self esteem to the curb. And, not only does ylang ylang encourage deeper connection but it improves focus and learning. Something we all can use throughout every area of your life, but especially with your spouse.

And remember those times that you can’t let a past hurt go. Maybe it something as simple as forgetting to take out the trash or as big as broken trust, these things can create a chasm in your love life. Ylang ylang’s scent is used regularly in aroma therapy for dispelling anger. Or maybe it’s not even a specific event just your overall state of mind at times. Maybe childbirth tore your libido apart and the you’re still working through the stress and responsibility of motherhood and the mental fatigue that comes with it. Or you’re working through a traumatic experience. Ylang ylang is great at creating balance throughout the body, emotionally and physically, which, in turn, is perfect for promoting the right hormones. Sometimes arousal isn’t just a physical reaction. It can take a lot of emotional energy to get in the mood. Ylang ylang is known for its positive influence and quieting negativity, dispelling depressing thoughts, reducing tension, calming breath, easing frustration, you get it!